Furthermore, we are advocates of mediation and arbitration to settle disputes in lieu of the courts. On the other hand, some cases must go to trial.

You must protect your children and/or yourself by having an aggressive yet reasonable attorney. Please speak with one of our attorneys immediately to discuss your right and options.

If you have children, please do what is truly in the best interests of the children. This is the courts' standard, in any event, the best interests of the children.

Resolve as many issues as possible prior to separation. The desire to live apart can be a great motivator to reaching resolution. Additionally, any agreement you can live with is likely to be better than any resolution the Court may order.

Have your attorney review any and all papers or agreements presented to you prior to signing them. Make sure you understand what you are entitled to under the law and what rights or claims you may be waiving.

Generally speaking, income, assets, property and the like, accumulated during the course of marriage are joint property. However, if you want a particular item, take it with you when you leave. It is easier to return an item then to retrieve it at a later date.

Close your bank accounts and make whatever arrangements are necessary so that your spouse can not pledge credit in your name. This is very important as both parties may be held liable for debts incurred by an estranged spouse.

If you or your children are being abused or are reasonably in fear of imminent harm by your spouse seek protection through the Court immediately. You do not have to leave the home, an abusive parent or spouse can and should be judicially restrained from entering the home, the children's school, your work place or any place where a person eligible for relief is living, working or being cared for.

Further, the Court may order use and possession of the family vehicle to the person eligible for relief as well as order the abusive person to provide family maintenance funds. Know your rights, protect yourself, protect your children.